with the <a href="/index.php?act=sendpm" title="Send PM"> [ Send PM ]</a><br /> how do u get it on the profile because i have it showing on the profile but i carnt get it to automaticly get the name from that profile so that you dont have to type it in all the time when clicked on that profile?

find profileedit.php or something like that was
and there you can edit
I've done it too but don't remember corectly.

nar i have edited it i just need to know how to get it to put the user name in automaticly

oh.. 

Oh you need to set the userid like index.php?act=sendpm&userid=1